Mortgage Myths vs. Truths: What You Really Need to Know

theresa rolen • February 26, 2025

Mortgage Myths vs. Truths: What?

Buying a home is one of the biggest financial steps you’ll ever take. But with so much information out there, it’s easy to get confused. As a mortgage broker, I hear a lot of myths about home loans that make people nervous about buying. Let’s clear up some of the biggest mortgage myths and get to the real facts! ✅


Myth #1: You Need a 20% Down Payment


Truth: You don’t need 20% down to buy a home! There are many loan programs that allow you to put down as little as 3%—or even 0% if you qualify for VA or USDA loans. Plus, there are down payment assistance programs that can help. 💰


✔️ Look into FHA, VA, and USDA loans
✔️ Research local down payment assistance programs, or ask your lender or broker what DPA options they have to offer. Brokers may have multiple lenders with various options available for those who qualify
✔️ Talk to a lender or broker to find the best option for you


Myth #2: You Must Have Perfect Credit to Get a Mortgage


Truth: While a higher credit score can help you qualify for better interest rates, you don’t need perfect credit to buy a home. Many loan programs accept scores as low as 580, and some even go lower! 📉


📝 Tips to Improve Your Credit Score:
✔️ Pay bills on time
✔️ Reduce credit card balances
✔️ Avoid opening new lines of credit before applying for a mortgage


Myth #3: You Should Always Choose a 30-Year Fixed Mortgage


Truth: A 30-year fixed mortgage is popular, but it’s not the only option. Depending on your goals, an adjustable-rate mortgage (ARM) or a 15-year loan might be a better fit. 🏡


✔️ A 15-year loan can save you thousands in interest
✔️ An ARM might offer a lower initial rate if you plan to move soon
✔️ Work with a lender to explore the best option for your situation


Myth #4: You Can’t Get a Mortgage If You’re Self-Employed


Truth: Being self-employed makes the mortgage process a bit different, but it doesn’t mean you can’t get a loan! Lenders will look at tax returns, bank statements, and income stability to qualify you. 👩‍💻


✔️ Keep detailed and accurate financial records
✔️ Work with a lender who understands self-employed income
✔️ Consider bank statement loans if traditional income proof is tricky


Myth #5: Pre-Qualification and Pre-Approval Are the Same Thing


Truth: They may sound similar, but they are very different! Pre-qualification is a quick estimate, while pre-approval involves a full credit check and income verification.


✔️ Pre-approval gives you an edge in competitive markets
✔️ Sellers take pre-approved buyers more seriously
✔️ Start the pre-approval process early to avoid delays


Myth #6: Your Monthly Payment is Just Principal and Interest


Truth: Your mortgage payment usually includes more than just the loan itself. Most payments also cover: 📑


✔️ Property taxes
✔️
Homeowner’s insurance
✔️
Private mortgage insurance (PMI) if putting down less than 20%

✔️ Home Owners Association Fees (HOA) 

Make sure you budget for the full cost of homeownership so there are no surprises!


Myth #7: You Should Pay Off Your Mortgage as Quickly as Possible


Truth: While being debt-free sounds great, paying off your mortgage early isn’t always the best move. If you have a low interest rate, investing your extra money elsewhere—like retirement savings—might bring you a better return. 💡


✔️ Compare your mortgage interest rate vs. potential investment returns
✔️ Keep an emergency fund before making extra mortgage payments
✔️ Consider making
one extra payment per year to reduce interest without stretching your budget


Final Thoughts


Don’t let mortgage myths hold you back from buying a home! The truth is, there are many options available, and with the right guidance, homeownership can be within reach. If you have questions about mortgages or want to see what’s possible for you, let’s chat! 📞 I’m here to help you make the best decision for your future! 🏡

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