Your Roadmap to Homeownership: Step-by-Step Guide to Buying a Home

theresa rolen • March 3, 2025

Your Roadmap to Homeownership...

Buying a home is an exciting journey, but it can also feel overwhelming if you don’t know where to start. Whether you’ve already chosen a realtor or lender, or you’re starting from scratch, this guide will help you understand each step and what to expect.


Step 1: Choose Your Team – Realtor and Lender

Some buyers connect with a realtor first, while others start with a lender or mortgage broker. Either way, both professionals play a key role in your homebuying journey!


If You Choose a Realtor First:

  • Your agent will help you understand the market, neighborhoods, and price ranges.
  • Next, they’ll guide you to a trusted lender (or mortgage broker) to get pre-approved, or you can reach out to me or your lender of choice directly.


If You Choose a Lender First:

  • Your lender (or mortgage broker) will help you get pre-approved so you know exactly how much home you can afford.
  • Once pre-approved, they’ll connect with a great real estate agent to start house hunting.

💡 Pro Tip: A mortgage broker (like me!) can shop multiple lenders to find the best loan options and rates, which can save you money over time.


Step 2: Get Pre-Approved – Your First Financial Step


No matter where you start, you’ll need pre-approval before making an offer on a home. This helps you:

✅ Know your price range 💰
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Show sellers you're a serious buyer
✅ 
Avoid surprises later in the process


General Documents You’ll Need for Pre-Approval:

📂 Recent pay stubs (last 30 days)
📂 W-2s or tax returns (last 2 years)
📂 Bank statements (last 2 months)
📂 ID (driver’s license or passport)
📂 Debt & asset details (credit cards, loans, 401(k), etc.), or Asset details and any debts that may not appear on your credit report.


Step 3: Define Your Wants vs. Needs & Start Home Shopping


Before you start looking at homes, make a list of:

✔️ Must-Haves: Bedrooms, bathrooms, location, school district
✔️ 
Nice-to-Haves: Big backyard, updated kitchen, home office
✔️ 
Deal-Breakers: No garage, too far from work, outdated major systems


Your realtor will help you tour homes that fit your budget and lifestyle.

💡 Pro Tip: Be flexible! The perfect home might not have everything, but the right one will check most of your boxes.


Step 4: Make an Offer & Get Under Contract


Once you find a home you love, your agent will help you submit an offer that includes:

📑 The price you’re offering
📑 Any contingencies (home inspection, financing, etc.)
📑 Your earnest money deposit 💰


If the seller accepts your offer—congrats! 🎉 You’re officially under contract!


Step 5: Home Inspection & Appraisal

🛠️ Home Inspection – Uncovers any hidden issues (roof, plumbing, foundation, etc.).
🏡 
Appraisal – Confirms the home’s value so the lender knows it’s worth the loan amount.

If any issues come up, you may be able to negotiate repairs or a lower price!


Step 6: Final Mortgage Approval & Closing Prep

Once the appraisal is complete, your lender will finalize your loan approval.

✅ Stay responsive to any requests from your lender.
✅ Avoid making large purchases (like a new car or furniture).
✅ Review your 
Closing Disclosure (final loan details) before signing.


Step 7: Closing Day – Get the Keys to Your New Home! 🔑


On closing day, you’ll sign all the final paperwork, make your down payment, and officially become a homeowner! 🎉

🥂 Celebrate – you did it! 🏡



Why Work with a Mortgage Broker?


Using a mortgage broker (like me!) means you get:

✅ More loan options – I shop multiple lenders for the best rates.
✅ 
Expert guidance – I simplify the process and answer all your questions.
✅ 
Faster & smoother approval – I handle the paperwork so you don’t have to.


Ready to Start Your Homebuying Journey?


No matter where you begin—with a realtor or a lender—I’m here to help! Let’s get you pre-approved and on the path to homeownership. Call, text, or message me today! 📞🏡


📧 Theresa@SummitLendingUSA.com
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(913) 705-0049

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