Down Payment Assistance: State Programs vs. Broker & Lender Options—Which is Best?

theresa rolen • February 13, 2025

Down Payment Assistance: State Programs vs. Broker & Lender Options—Which is Best?

Buying a home is exciting, but saving for a down payment can be tough. That’s where down payment assistance (DPA) programs come in! These programs help homebuyers cover some or all of their down payment, making homeownership more affordable. But not all DPA programs are the same.


There are state-run DPA programs and broker/lender DPA programs—each with its own pros and cons. Let’s break it down!


State Down Payment Assistance Programs

Many states offer DPA programs to help buyers afford their first home. These programs usually come from state housing agencies and can offer grants, low-interest loans, or forgivable loans to cover part of your down payment.


✅ Advantages:
Great for First-Time Buyers – Many programs are designed just for first-time homebuyers.
Lower Interest Rates – Some programs offer special low rates.
Forgivable Loans – Some loans don’t have to be paid back if you stay in the home long enough.


❌ Disadvantages:
Longer Approval Process – State programs have extra paperwork and longer wait times.
Income & Credit Limits – You may not qualify if you make too much or have a low credit score.
Must Stay in the Home – Many programs require you to live in the home for a set number of years, or you’ll have to repay the assistance.

Not Always a Grant – Make sure that you understand the program. Some of these programs are loans and are repayable like a second mortgage, for a period of time.
Limited Funding – Some programs run out of money, so they’re not always available.


Broker & Lender Down Payment Assistance Programs

Mortgage brokers and lenders also offer private DPA programs, which can be a faster and more flexible option than state programs.


✅ Advantages:
Faster Approvals – Less paperwork means quicker approval and closing!
Fewer Restrictions – No waiting years to avoid repayment rules.
More Loan Options – Brokers work with multiple lenders to find the best fit for you.
Higher Income Limits – You may qualify even if you make too much for state programs.


❌ Disadvantages:
May Have a Higher Interest Rate – Some programs add a small cost to the loan.
Not Always a Grant – Some lender programs are forgivable like grants after a period of time, and others may be second loans that require additional monthly payments for a limited time, or may need to be repaid later.


Which One is Best for You?

If you’re looking for lower rates and don’t mind extra paperwork, a state DPA program might be a good choice. But if you want faster approvals, more options, and fewer restrictions, a broker or lender DPA program could be the better fit!

Working with a mortgage broker can help you compare all your options and find the best deal. Want to learn more? Let’s chat! 😊🏡

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